“Straddle His Saddle”

04|23|10: Thank God It’s Freaky Friday! (;

For all my female followers who consistently ask me about “girl-on-top” positions; here is one of them that I always recommend. The ultimate girl-satisfaction position. The girl is in control of her man by controlling the timing and speed of his thrusts. If you need a little girl-dominance in your sex life, this is the position for you. It’s called the “Straddle His Saddle” and this is how it works:

Have your guy sit on the floor with his arms stretched out behind him for support and his legs crossed loosely Indian-style. Climb onto his lap so you’re straddling him in a kneeling position and hold on to his shoulders as you lower yourself onto his erect penis. Lean toward him and keep your bodies close together as you take control of the timing and speed of the thrusting…. Ride him, cowgirl!

And why is this position so awesome for the ladies?!

This is the ultimate girl-power position, because you command the action by alternating slow, shallow strokes with deep thrusts. To mix things up more, lower yourself down your man’s shaft in drive-him-nuts circular motions (like a corkscrew), and this seriously simple sack-session becomes one wild ride. You’ll be facing him, so the hot and heavy eye contact will make the action extra steamy.

Well there you have it. If your sex life is seeking some girl-on-top action, this position is definitely one you need to try. Go get em’ cowgirls! (; It’s time to get freaky, try this position out tonight and have a fantastic Friday everyone!

Also…I know it’s not “Moaning Monday” yet, but I’m going to answer two of the questions I received this week today because in my opinion they are emergency questions that cannot wait till Monday, so don’t worry ladies, I’ve got you covered! Here we go:

hi tay..

im actually one of your valid fans.. i just recently had a guts to ask this question. I know you are not an OB gyne but i just want to ask if you know something about PLAN B/ Emergency Contraceptive Pill? Specifically NORDETTE 21. I search the whole world wide web about it. But im not really sure if i understand it very well. It says I need to take 4 pills within 72 hrs and another 4 pills with 12hrs after the first dose. Is this really effective??

Well first of all I commend you on being able to ask this question, I know it takes a lot of guts to talk about such things as accidents. And you are right, I am not a professional gynecologist or anything by any means, but I do have some experience with emergency contraception, because I myself have had to take some, so don’t feel like you’re alone. I know it’s a scary time for you, but I’m here for you. If you are looking to use your birth control pill as emergency contraception, just make sure you talk to your doctor to make sure it’s safe to use for that purpose. I assume that you are already taking Nordette-21 as your birth control method and that’s why you’re asking about using that specifically? If so, you’re lucky because Nordette-21 is in fact one of the birth control pills that can be used as a morning-after pill. What you found on the internet is correct; in order for the pills to work like you want them too you need to take 4 pills within 72 hours of having unprotected sex. This means you take all 4 of those AT THE SAME TIME. Then you wait 12 hours and take 4 more pills AT THE SAME TIME to complete the process. Now, there are some complications that you most likely will have to deal with. First of all, as I understand it, Nordette-21 they recommend that you take your pill with some food because of the chance of your stomach becoming upset, using it as emergency contraception is no different, in fact, I would take the 4 pills with a full-blown meal to try and prevent your stomach from becoming upset. There still is a chance though that you may vomit from taking so many hormones at once. If this happens: call your doctor and ask him/her what to do (about whether you should take another dose or not) because I’m not a doctor! Also, be advised that you will most likely have some changes in your period after taking the emergency contraception because as with any emergency contraception pill, the hormones trick your body into having a period. So you will probably get it early. Approximately 3-5 days after taking it. If you take the pills exactly as the directions and your doctor say, then they can be very effective at preventing pregnancy (75-89%), but I would definitely call your doctor if you have any questions. Good luck sweetie, I hope everything works out for you and I hope this was at least somewhat helpful!

Okay so I have a little problem. I’m 17 and currently have a 22 year old sex buddy. We’ve had a few encounters, all extremely amazing but one little thing got in the way. The second time we did it the condom came off inside me, we managed to fish it out eventually and we didnt have sex again after that. I’m not on any pill or anything so I got the morning after and the light period came as usual. Everything was fine until this afternoon, we met up again and had sex. Using protection ofcourse but I am absolutley certain the condom broke. So, I am planning to take the morning after pill again and get on the pill as soon as possible before having sex with him again. Now my problem; the first time I took the morning after was on the wedensday last week- the period came on friday and lasted until tuesday. This is when we had sex again the day after but I didnt need to take anything afterwards because I felt fine that nothing had gone wrong. And as I said before, tomorrow I’m planning to take the morning after pill again- I’m just worried that its going to fuck up my period as the last one I had was ended just a few days ago and was brought on by the morning after pill. Now if I take it again tomorrow (that will make it just under 24 hours after I’m pretty sure the condom broke) will it fuck up my next period or could I get pregnant or what? Just please give me some advice and I promise in return I will FINALLY book that doctors appointment and get.on.the.pill.
Thanks so much (:

Okay. First of all, I’m very proud of you for finally realizing that you need to take control of your sex life and realize that birth control pills are the way to go. Anyone who needs to take 2 emergency contraceptive pills within a week’s time should realize that birth control pills are a much easier, less expensive way to prevent pregnancy. I would WITHOUT A QUESTION, take another morning-after pill, and since you’re going to be taking it within 24 hours of having unprotected sex, it will be extremely effective (the sooner you take it, the more effective it will be). Now, as with any time you take emergency contraception, it will most likely mess up your menstrual cycle again, but not to worry, when your period is over and you go on the birth control pill-it will put your cycle back into a normal 28 day cycle. If you don’t take the morning after pill, there is definitely a chance that you’ll get pregnant, please don’t take that chance. Go get the morning-after pill. There is also a chance that you may vomit after taking the E.C. pill because you’ve taken two of them within a week’s period and that’s a lot of hormones going into your body. Be sure to read the instructions on the E.C. pill package so you know what to do if this happens, also if you have any questions you can call your pharmacy or call your doctor and they can tell you whether you need another dose or not. The E.C. pill when taken within 24 hours of unprotected sex has an over 90% chance of preventing pregnancy. So I would definitely take another pill if I were you, that’s my advice. Also, a quick side note: sounds to me like you’re having some issues with the condom brand you are using? First it’s too loose and falls off, and then it breaks, that’s NOT normal. If I were you, in addition to getting on the pill, I would look into buying a new condom brand (use the pill and condom together-that’s your best bet for not getting pregnant!). There are plenty of review sites for condoms that you can look at online to figure which brand will work the best for you. If I were you though, I’d stay away from ultra-thin condoms and Trojan Ecstasy condoms because these have been reported to have the most breakage. I hope this helps and please please please keep your promise and get on the birth control pill! It will greatly reduce your chance for pregnancy, allowing you to have a better sex life because you won’t be worried about it all the time. Good luck girl! (: